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A
boy is a young
male human , as contrasted to its
female counterpart, which is called
girl.
The term "boy" is primarily used to indicate biological sex distinctions, cultural
gender role distinctions, or both, but the term in also used, and enters frequently in compounds, in more specific meanings that often transcend the primary use.
By extension it commonly applies to adult men, either considered in some way immature, in a position associated with aspects of boyhood or even without such boyish connotation as age-indiscriminate synonym.
Etymology
The origin of the English word
boy, recorded since 1154, is unclear; it is probably related to East Frisian
boi,
Old Norse bófi,
Dutch boef " knave, rogue", and
German Bube. These apparently all have their origin in baby talk .
But there is a theory that
English "boy" derives from a theorized Anglo-Saxon word *
boia = "boy or servant", thus explaining the English placenames Boyton and Boycott. If so, the word may have originated from the Celtic tribe called the
Boii, who formerly lived in
Bohemia but were driven out by the Marcomanni
German tribe taking the area over in
Roman times. In the dispersal, many Boii may have become slaves or servants, and their name became a word for "servant".
Scope
An adult male human is a
man, but when age is not a crucial factor both terms can be interchangeable, e.g., 'boys and their toys' applies equally to adults, 'Are you mice or men?' equally to young boys.
The age boundary is not clear cut, rather dependent on the context or even on individual circumstances. A young man who has not assumed the traditional roles of a man might also be called a boy. It may feel uncomfortable to a young male upon being referred to as a "man" before he believes he has assumed these roles, such as having a career, a partner, a household of his own, fatherhood. Conversely, it may feel uncomfortable to a male to be called a "boy" if he believes he has assumed the traditional roles of a "man." In mother's/mama's boy, the word emphatically implies a male who is too immature to be independent.
In some traditions boyhood is held to be exchanged for adult manhood, or at least approach it significantly, by certain in se independent acts assuming a role deemed to be typical for a 'normal' man as marriage, fathering offspring or military service. Various cultural and/or religious
rites of passage serve, partially or specifically, to mark the transition to manhood.
There is often a number of traditional differences in attire between boys and adult men, which may even give rise to a metaphoric term such as
broekvent in Dutch and in what is socially accepted as appropriate behavior, e.g., boys may be publicly seen
naked in cultures where men are not.
In English, a youth or a
teenager may be either male or female. No gender-specific term exists for an intermediate stage between a boy and a man, except "young man".
Many occasions occur when an adult male is commonly referred to as a boy. A person's boyfriend or loverboy may be of any age; this even applies to a 'working' call-boy, toyboy . Reflecting the general esthetical preference for youth, one says
pretty boy or
Adonis even when a male beauty is clearly of riper age. In terms for homosexuals such as batty boy or bum boy, age is not essential, but the connotation of immaturity can strengthen insulting use.
A man's group of male friends are often "the boys".
It is most common to refer to men, irrespective of age or even in an adult age group, as boys in the context of a team , such as
old boys for networking of adult men who attended the same school as boys, or as professional colleagues, e.g. "the boys at the office, - police station etc" .
In sports 'the boys' commonly refers to the team mates; e.g.,
UK football managers quite often refer to their players as "The boy so-and-so" and this usage is by no means restricted to the youngest players, though it is rarely applied to the most senior.
In some cases, a word using boy is used merely to designate the age of the person, irrespective of the function, as in
altar boy, a minor acting as liturgical acolyte, or in
Boy Scouts, an organisation specifically for boys. Thus the compound
-man can then be replaced by
-boy, as in footboy; or boy is simply added, either as a prefix or as a suffix .
An adult equivalent is not to be expected when -boy designates an apprentice or lowest rank implying specific on the job training if promotion is to be obtained, as in kitchen-boy. Similarly
schoolboy only applies to minors; the modern near-synonym
pupil originally designated a minor in Roman law as being under a specific adult's authority, as
in loco parentis.
Expressions such as "boys will be boys" alude to stereotypically ascribed characteristics of boys and men; in the term
tomboy, a woman's uncharacteristically bold nature is even described solely by comparing her to a boy.
The use of boy in nick-names, also for adult men , may also connote to the informal or naughty image of boyhood.
In such terms as 'city boy' or 'home boy', the age notion is at most anachronistic, as they indicate any male who grew up in a certain environment.
Historically, in countries such as the
U.S. and
South Africa, "boy" was not only a 'neutral' term for domestics but also used as a disparaging,
racist insult towards non-white males , recalling their subservient status even after the 20th century legal emancipation and alleged infantility, and many still consider it offensive in that context to this day.
Specific uses and compounds
The following subsections will treat some specific contexts where the term boy is frequently used, as such or in compound terms, often 'emancipated' from the age notion as such.
They also show that similar semantic broadness applies to many languages, notably Indo-European; to avoid lengthy duplication, cases may simply be linked here.
- Master was replaced by the late 19th century, as a form of address, especially employed by servants, by Mister for the master of the household and other adults, but retained for boys till age 13
Military
The term 'our boys' is commonly used for a nation's soldiers, often with sympathy. Given the physical demands of battle, recruits are preferably in their physical prime, but adult professionals remain included in the term as long as they remain in service.
A case where the term is formally used for men is sideboy, a member of an even-numbered group of seaman posted in two rows at the Quarterdeck when a visiting dignitary boards or leaves a ship.
In the Ottoman empire, the young, mainly Christian military recruits for life were officially called
acemi oglanlar .
Thus boy can enter in the nick name for a particular nation's soldiers, e.g. the US
doughboy;
Furthermore, specific terms refer to minors used in the armed forces:
- drummer boy
- ship's boy is a minor in naval training; boy seaman refers to specific, low-paid apprentice ranks, notably in the Royal Navy; until the middle of the 20th century, they were the only Navy staff subject—like their civilian age-peers, at home and in school—to physical punishment, usually spanking, traditionally administered on the bare bottom , either formally or, more often but less severely, summary; the same was true of a midshipman, also a minor, but indicated with -man rather than -boy, possibly reflecting their higher status as future naval officers.
However, when a minor in military employ is considered too young to be a 'normal' warrior , he's called
boy soldier, regardless whether he's used as an armed fighter or only in logistic or similar functions such as bearer.
Domestic, residential and similar 'personal' attendants
- Houseboy, or often boy for short, became a common term for domestic staff, notably non-European natives in the Asian and African colonies, adopted as such in other languages, e.g. in Dutch and French .
- Bellboy was originally a ship's bell-ringer, later a hotel page.
- Busboy is a rank in restaurants restaurants etc. below waiter, fitting for trainees but may be held by ripe adults, even under younger superiors
- Page, from the Greek pais, again in many languages, already in Hellenistic times paides basilikoi 'royal boys'.
- Cabin boy
- Hamam oglani "bath boy" working in a Turkish bath.
- Hall boy
- Kitchen boy, belows the cook; in a large household there may be specific functions, such as spitboy
Rural life and professions
- Cowboy originally designated a herdsboy employed as cowherd, but lost the age notion, first retaining the connotation of inferior status, later applying to the whole ranch life culture
Commercial and other services
Often the term boy enters in positions of the trainee type, such as stable boy .
- best boy in a film crew denotes the chief assistant, usually of the gaffer or key grip, next in line to be promoted; an example of a use where the term is traditionally unaltered in crediting female incumbents
- office boy and copy boy refer to a young employee , in training and/or performing menial services such as making photocopies.
- even into the early 20th century, the British empire systematically employed boy clerks, including a specific rank of boy copyist, recruited by examination and reserved for candidates aged 15-18, not retained in that rank after the age of 20
Certain jobs require so little training or formal qualifications that they can easily be performed as student job, and thus tend to be filled mostly or exclusively by minors, as it wouldn't 'pay' to employ an adult at or above minimum wage. Thus an equivalent word with the compound man may be the rarer one, or even inexistent. Examples include delivery boy, errand boy, messenger boy and various specific terms naming the product to deliver, such as paperboy , pizza boy . In some cases his small, light body makes a boy a better choice, e.g. as jockey where no handicap is in force.
Role play
In
BDSM, the term boy, often in the deliberate misspelling boi, sometimes specified , refers not to junior age, but to the submissive position in the role play at the masters beck and call, also known as bottom, especially if this implies submitting to discipline by the dominant 'top' who may not only command and humiliate the boi at his discretion but even administer punishment at his pleasure.
Non-function specific analogous terms
Boys, in the strict or a wider sense, are often informally referred to by analogous or metaphorical terms. The literal connotations, which may be ironic or downright pejorative, have often been eroded by common use. Some terms are unisex, with or without preponderance of use for boys
- cub and pup compare boys to the young of predatory animals, the slang tadpole even to that of an amphibian;
- buck, another animal young, usually refers to a sexually adventurous male youngster
- sprout compares to a plant's young shoots
- references to the boy's generally lighter physique then a man include stripling 'slender youth' and -rather insulting- slang like half-pint or small-fry
- more specifically, shaveling refers to boys' lesser hair growth then men's before - and densification around puberty
- various terms refer to children's, often especially boys', lack of adult manners or to often mischievous behavior, e.g. rascal, also by analogy with animals, e.g. monkey, urchin ; brat refers to such undiscipline for lack of firm upbringing
Analogous uses and popular etymology
By analogy boy can also refer as an
anthropomorphic term to a young male of another animal, either in general or species-specific; in the last case it may even have a specific term, notably derived from a boy's name, such as
billy goat for a 'boy' goat, or tomcat
Again by analogy boy can occasionally even refer to 'male' object.
Some words contain 'boy' in English 'by mistake' , actually referring to a homophone such as the French
bois 'wood'
Similar originally youth-related terms
- cadet
- groom originally meant young male, possibly related to gromet , and only in the 1667 was specifically used for a stable man or - boy
- infant, originally 'child too young to speak' evolved to infantryman 'foot soldier' and, in Iberian language, to the princely style infante
- knave , originally a male child, a boy . Like Latin puer, the word was early used as a name for any boy or lad employed as a servant, and so of male servants in general , and especially a journeyman. The current use of the word for a man who is dishonest and crafty, a rogue, was however an early usage, and is found in Layamon . In playing-cards the lowest court card of each suit, the jack, representing a medieval servant, is still called the knave
- the term junior 'younger', antonym of senior, occurs in titles as 'lower grade', in terms of service years or even merely hierarchical, on criteria regardless of experience; equivalent is puisne
- lad, or in the Scottish diminutive form laddie : known since c.1300 as ladde "foot soldier," also "young male servant" , possibly from a Scandinavian language , perhaps originally a plural of the pp. of lead , thus "one who is led" ; present meaning "boy, youth, young man" attested from c.1440; in Northern England, and particularly in the county of Lancashire, males of all ages jokingly refer to themselves as being a Lancashire "lad". Lass is the female counterpart.
- minor now usually applies unisex, but historically there was often a different age limit or even a legal system in which women were never fully emancipated in the eyes of the law, and so passed from the dominion of their father to that of their husband
- squire and esquire, both from Old French esquier , itself deriving from Latin scutarius 'shield bearer', originally entered English as a boy in attendance to a knight , but were socially promoted and lost their age-connotation
- swain, of Norse origin entered English c.1150 as "young man attendant upon a knight" i.e. squire, or junior rank, as in boatswain and coxswain, but now usually means a boyfriend or a country lad
- vassal stems from an Old Celtic root *wasso- "young man, squire"
- Valet and its variant varlet also derive from vassal and apply to male servants, sometimes specifically boys
Social position of boys
The position of boys in society is usually a function of their dual classification: as male and/or as minor.
As a rule, the younger the boy the more he's regarded primarily as a child, and treated similarly as a girl of the same age; infants and toddlers are 'mothered' by women, fairly indiscriminately. As age progresses, virtually all cultural traditions increase the gender-specificity, often leading to separation of boys from girls, and as they approach adulthood, especially entering puberty, boys usually get more associated with adults, usually mainly with men. Especially in tribal cultures, they often join successive age grades, exclusively for boy within a give age bracket, or remain together as an age set which makes the steps as a group, so the individual members at somewhat different ages.
The formal culmination is often a coming of age ceremony, which is most cultures is gender-specific or exclusively for men.
In ancient
Sparta, from the exceptionally early age of seven a citizen's son was taken from his mother to start his education in all-male company, preparing to become a soldier. Though less extreme, other Greek city states also had a form of organized boys-only education, usually with some emphasis on military training, which often was the crux of such adolescent boys corps as the
epheboi.
Future differences as adults based largely on birth right are often reflected in a different treatment as boys.
In many traditions only a minority enjoys formal schooling -a major asset for future social promotion oppourtunities- in addition to informal education, and often this advantage is only common for boys and may even be forbidden for girls; religious factors may also play a role, e.g. churches restricting the priesthood to men will preferentially school boys . Those who enjoy schooling will generally be exempt from
child labor, while the others/lower classes are set to work younger, either in specific functions or rather just like their parents or even hired out to supplement he meager household income.
Boys in art
In classical art, the dominant image of physical beauty, adopted even for the gods, is that of the male athlete, whether a ripe boy or a young adult, in Greek art often a
kouros in the
nude. Especially the
Renaissance followed their example, here as in many things.
Many mythological boys have frequently been represented in various arts, e.g. Venus' often mischievous son
Cupid, himself a young god of love which he 'inflicts' on humans by shooting his arrows; in some style periods even multiplied as naked little boys called
putti.
In religious art, generally adults preponderate , with certain marked, stereotypical exceptions such as the
infant Jesus or
angels which may even act as 'christianized' putti.
In
portrait art, and generally in commissioned work , the subjects are usually determined by the wishes of the client, so minors are often in the minority, yet in wealthy families especially heirs are presented as part of their social positioning in view of future marriage and succession, generally either as mini-adults or stereotypical youth, e.g. at play or in cozy home scenes.
Some artists displayed a clear predeliction for scenes with boys, in certain cases believed to have to do with a homo-erotic taste, as is believed of the highly respected Old Master
Caravaggio, or
Henry Scott Tuke who kept producing such works even though the market circa 1900 was rather unappreciative.
In music, boys' voices before they 'break', of a soprano register unlike adult men, have been most sought-after, especially where female voices were considered inappropriate as often in church and certain theatrical music - this even lead to the practice of physically trying to prevent their 'angelical' voices ever to break by surgically cutting short the hormonal drive to manhood: for centuries,
castrato singers, who coupled adult strength and experience with a treble register, starred in contratenor parts, mainly in operatic styles.
See also
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Sources and references
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