This Is Not the Life I Ordered
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This Is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down is a collaborative non-fiction
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 inspirational self-help
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 book written by Deborah Collins Stephens, Michealene Cristini Risley
Michealene Cristini Risley
Michealene Cristini Risley is an award-winning writer, director and human rights activist.Risley is most well known for her recent work as the writer, producer and director for the film Tapestries of Hope, which follows social activist Betty Makoni in her efforts to help sexually abused young women...

, Jackie Speier
Jackie Speier
Karen Lorraine Jacqueline "Jackie" Speier is the U.S. Representative for , serving since 2008. She is a member of the Democratic Party. The district includes the northern two-thirds of San Mateo County and the southwest quarter of San Francisco.She is also a former member of the California State...

, and Jan Yanehiro
Jan Yanehiro
-Personal life:She earned a journalism degree from California State University, Fresno in 1970.She is the Director of Multimedia Communications at the Academy of Art University in San Francisco.-Television career:...

. The book was first published in a hardcover format in 2007, by Conari Press. The first printing of the work was for thirty-five thousand copies, and a second printing is planned.

About the authors

The four authors were all friends prior to writing the book. Jackie Speier
Jackie Speier
Karen Lorraine Jacqueline "Jackie" Speier is the U.S. Representative for , serving since 2008. She is a member of the Democratic Party. The district includes the northern two-thirds of San Mateo County and the southwest quarter of San Francisco.She is also a former member of the California State...

 is a Congresswoman
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 from California
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, and was a candidate for Lieutenant Governor of California
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 in 2006. Speier survived five gunshot wounds when she was shot by members of Peoples Temple
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 in 1978 when she traveled to Jonestown
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Jonestown was the informal name for the Peoples Temple Agricultural Project, an intentional community in northwestern Guyana formed by the Peoples Temple led by Jim Jones. It became internationally notorious when, on November 18, 1978, 918 people died in the settlement as well as in a nearby...

 with Congressman Leo J. Ryan
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Leo Joseph Ryan, Jr. was an American politician of the Democratic Party. He served as a U.S. Representative from California's 11th congressional district from 1973 until he was murdered in Guyana by members of the Peoples Temple shortly before the Jonestown Massacre in 1978.After the Watts Riots...

. Jan Yanehiro
Jan Yanehiro
-Personal life:She earned a journalism degree from California State University, Fresno in 1970.She is the Director of Multimedia Communications at the Academy of Art University in San Francisco.-Television career:...

  is a broadcast journalist
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, and co-hosted Evening Magazine
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which aired on San Francisco's KPIX. Yanehiro is a co-executive producer of "Pacific Fusion", a television magazine program featuring Asian American lifestyle, which airs on KRON.

Michealene Cristini Risley was Vice-President, group director of licensing and character development, at Sega Corporation
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. She is also the founder and president of Fresh Water Spigot, a creative content company based in Portola Valley, California
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. Deborah Collins Stephens is the cofounder and managing partner of the Center for Innovative Leadership. She is also the author of One Size Fits One and co-authored The Maslow Business Reader, with Abraham H. Maslow.

Contents

In the book, the authors share advice gained from personal experiences on topics including family life, work, and love - and the difficulties of balancing these issues. As the title suggests, the book offers fifty ways in which the reader can stay focused and upbeat when misfortune strikes. The book is structured topically, with each chapter dealing with different types of issues such as dealing with misfortune, managing mistakes, understanding money and how to network with other women. Each chapter concludes with a "WIT (Women in Transition) Kit," which contains action plans and exercises related to the previous section. The chapter "Understanding Money and a Women’s Worth" provides "straightforward directives" on topics such as net worth
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, tax return
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s and how to create a financial plan.

Reception

This Is Not the Life I Ordered reached the best seller list of the San Francisco Chronicle
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for the second time in June 2007. The book also appeared on the NCIBA bestseller list, and was featured on the "Sacramento 07 Books" list, by the Professional BusinessWomen of California organization. This Is Not the Life I Ordered received a positive review in ForeWord Magazine
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, where the reviewer noted that the work: "is more about 'turning ‘woe is me’ into action' than coddling."

External links

  • Conari Press, official page at Publisher's Web site
  • This Is Not The Life I Ordered, preview of book, promotional video with Jackie Speier
  • "This Is Not The Life I Ordered", article about the book by co-author Michealene Cristini Risley, at The Huffington Post
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