"The Disappointment" is a poem written by Aphra Behn

Aphra Behn

Aphra Behn was a prolific dramatist of the English Restoration and was one of the first English professional female writers. Her writing contributed to the amatory fiction genre of British literature.-Early life:...

. It was first published in 1680 (see 1680 in poetry

1680 in poetry

Nationality words link to articles with information on the nation's poetry or literature .-Works published:* Wentworth Dillon, translator, Horace's Art of Poetry, translation from the Latin of Horace's Ars poetica, including an essay by Edmund Waller* John Dryden and others, translators, Ovid's...

) in Rochestor's Poems on Several Occasions and originally was believed to be the Earl of Rochester’s own work. However, four years later, the poem was re-published in Aphra Behn’s “Poems on Several Occasions” and she received proper credit.

Summary

Lysander, a shepherd, attempts to engage in sexual intercourse with Cloris, a maid. After a lengthy seduction, Lysander prematurely ejaculates and leaves Cloris sexually frustrated. Behn's focus on the female sexual experience is unusual for the time, though not unusual for Behn. Behn often dealt with overt sexuality in her writing, but this perspective often was not accepted by the public until well after death

Themes

"The Disappointment" is grouped with other male 'imperfect enjoyment' poems, where a male's failing is attributed to female beauty. Rather than focus on explaining Lysander's failure, Behn is concerned with Cloris's disappointment, as the title of the poem illustrates. Because the speaker of the poem is omniscient, and can reveal the feelings and emotions of both Cloris and Lysander the narration exposes the irony of Cloris’ initial reluctance to engage sexually with Lysander, compared to her feelings later when she is willing, but Lysander no longer able to perform the act. Another interesting aspect of the poem is the way Aphra Behn personifies honor and shame as existing externally from Cloris as if honor “abandons” her of its own free will, and shame replaces it without Cloris’ consent.

Critical Reception

Though many critics disliked Behn’s work during her lifetime, Aphra Behn today is lauded as one of the most influential women writers. Virginia Woolf, in A Room Of One’s Own stated that all women owe a debt to Aphra Behn, who “earned them the right to speak their minds”. Today, Aphra Behn is credited with being a proto-feminist, and her works are studied as some of the most important works written by women during the time period.

External links

• Text of The Disappointment