If you cant say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
Would you like it if someone said the same thing to your family or you ? You need to learn to respect people and their family when someone says something about someone it means there not happy with them self learn 2 respect
Yes i agree even thinking negativly toward a person or situation has a more negative affect on the thinker. Therfore postive and helpful thoughts words feelings and actions will take us forwards.