Eye contact is a meeting of the eyes between two individuals.
In human beings, eye contact is a form of
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and is thought to have a large influence on
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. Coined in the early to mid-1960s, the term has come in
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to often define the act as a meaningful and important sign of confidence and social communication. The customs and significance of eye contact vary widely between cultures, with religious and social differences often altering its meaning greatly.
The study of eye contact is sometimes known as
oculesics.
Social meanings of eye contact
Eye contact and
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s provide important
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and emotional information. People, perhaps without consciously doing so, probe each other's eyes and faces for positive or negative
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signs. In some contexts, the meeting of eyes arouses strong emotions.
Eye contact is also an important element in
flirtingFlirting is a playful, romantic, or sexual overture by one person to another subtly indicating an interest in a deeper relationship with the other person, and can involve verbal communication as well as body language...
, where it may serve to establish and gauge the other's interest in some situations.
Mutual eye contact that signals attraction initially begins as a brief glance and progresses into a repeated volleying of eye contact, according to Beverly Palmer, Ph.D. and professor of psychology at
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, Dominguez Hills.
In the process of
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strangers in close proximity, such as a crowd, avoid eye contact in order to help maintain their
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.
Parent–child eye contact
A 1985 study published in the
Journal of Experimental Child Psychology suggested that "3-month-old infants are comparatively insensitive to being the object of another's visual regard". A 1996 Canadian study with 3 to 6 month old infants found that smiling in the infants decreased when adult eye contact was removed. A recent British study in the Journal of Cognitive Neuroscience found that face recognition by infants was facilitated by direct gaze. Other recent research has confirmed the belief that the direct gaze of adults influences the direct gaze of infants.
Communicating attention
A person's direction of gaze may indicate to others where his or her
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lies.
Facilitating learning
Recent studies suggest that eye contact has a positive impact on the retention and recall of information and may promote more efficient learning.
Cultural differences
In the Islamic faith, Muslims often lower their
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and try not to focus on the opposite sex's faces and eyes after the initial first eye contact, other than their legitimate partners or family members, in order to avoid potential unwanted desires. Lustful glances to those of the opposite sex, young or adult, are also prohibited. This means that eye contact between any man and woman is allowed only for a second or two.
Japanese children are taught in school to direct their gaze at the region of their teacher's Adam's apple or tie knot. As adults, Japanese lower their eyes when speaking to a superior as a gesture of respect.
In many cultures, such as East Asia and Nigeria, it is respectful not to look the dominant person in the eye, but in
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this can be interpreted as being "shifty-eyed", and the person judged badly because "he wouldn't look me in the eye"; references such as "shifty-eyed" can refer to suspicions regarding an individual's unrevealed intentions or thoughts. Nevertheless, the seeking of constant unbroken eye contact by the other participant in a conversation can often be considered overbearing or distracting by many even in western cultures, possibly on an instinctive or subconscious level.
Eye aversion and mental processing
A study by Phelps, Doherty-Sneddon, and Warnock concluded that children who avoid eye contact while considering their responses to questions are more likely to answer correctly than children who maintain eye contact. According to Doherty-Sneddon: Contrariwise, Doherty-Sneddon suggests that a blank stare indicates a lack of understanding.
Difficulty with eye contact
Some people find eye contact more difficult than others. For example, those with
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or
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may find eye contact to be particularly unsettling.
Between species
Patterns of eye contact between non-human mammals and between humans and other mammals are also well documented.
Animals of many species, including dogs, often perceive eye contact as a threat. Many programs to prevent dog bites recommend avoiding direct eye contact with an unknown dog. According to a report in
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, maintaining eye contact is one reason young children may be more likely to fall victim to dog attacks.
In the 1990s,
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s returned to
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's
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after a twenty-year absence. Park officials recommend that visitors avoid direct eye contact if a bear stands on its hind legs.
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s use eye contact to signal aggression in hostile encounters, and staring at them in a zoo can induce agitated behavior.
See also
- Australian Aboriginal avoidance practices
Australian Aboriginal avoidance practices refers to those relationships in traditional Aboriginal society where certain people were required to avoid others in their family or clan. These customs are still active in many parts of Australia, to a greater or lesser extent.Avoidance relationships are...
- Evil eye
The evil eye is a look that is believed by many cultures to be able to cause injury or bad luck for the person at whom it is directed for reasons of envy or dislike...
- Face-to-face
The face-to-face relation refers to a concept in the French philosopher Emmanuel Levinas' thought on human sociality.Lévinas' phenomenological account of the "face-to-face" encounter serves as the basis for his ethics and the rest of his philosophy...
- Interpersonal communication
Interpersonal communication is usually defined by communication scholars in numerous ways, usually describing participants who are dependent upon one another. It...
- The look – description of interpersonal discomfort by Jean-Paul Sartre
Jean-Paul Charles Aymard Sartre was a French existentialist philosopher, playwright, novelist, screenwriter, political activist, biographer, and literary critic. He was one of the leading figures in 20th century French philosophy, particularly Marxism, and was one of the key figures in literary...
- Staring contest
A staring contest is a game in which two people stare into each other's eyes and attempt to maintain eye contact for a longer period of time than their opponent. The game ends when one participant intentionally or unintentionally looks away...