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The elephant in the room (also elephant in the living room, elephant in the parlor, elephant in the corner, elephant on the dinner table, elephant in the kitchen, elephant on the coffee table, and horse in the corner) is an English
English language

English is a West Germanic language that originated in Anglo-Saxon England and has lingua franca status in many parts of the world as a result of the military, economic, scientific, political and cultural influence of the British Empire in the 18th, 19th and early 20th centuries and that of the United States from the mid 20th century onwa...
 idiom
Idiom

An idiom is a phrase whose meaning cannot be determined by the literal definition of the phrase itself, but refers instead to a figurative language meaning that is known only through common use....
 for an obvious truth
Truth

semantic fields for the word truth extend from honesty, good faith, and sincerity in general, to agreement with fact or reality in particular....
 that is being ignored or goes unaddressed.






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The elephant in the room (also elephant in the living room, elephant in the parlor, elephant in the corner, elephant on the dinner table, elephant in the kitchen, elephant on the coffee table, and horse in the corner) is an English
English language

English is a West Germanic language that originated in Anglo-Saxon England and has lingua franca status in many parts of the world as a result of the military, economic, scientific, political and cultural influence of the British Empire in the 18th, 19th and early 20th centuries and that of the United States from the mid 20th century onwa...
 idiom
Idiom

An idiom is a phrase whose meaning cannot be determined by the literal definition of the phrase itself, but refers instead to a figurative language meaning that is known only through common use....
 for an obvious truth
Truth

semantic fields for the word truth extend from honesty, good faith, and sincerity in general, to agreement with fact or reality in particular....
 that is being ignored or goes unaddressed. It is based on the idea that an elephant
Elephant

Elephants are large land mammals of the order Proboscidea and the family Elephantidae. There are three living species: the African Bush Elephant, the African Forest Elephant and the Asian Elephant ....
 in a room would be impossible to overlook; thus, people in the room who pretend the elephant is not there might be concerning themselves with relatively small and even irrelevant matters, compared to the looming big one.

Origins

The Oxford English Dictionary
Oxford English Dictionary

The Oxford English Dictionary , published by the Oxford University Press , is a comprehensive dictionary of the English language. Two fully-bound print editions of the OED have been published under its current name, in 1928 and 1989; as of December 2008 the dictionary's current editors have completed a quarter of the third edition....
 gives the first-known use of the phrase as The New York Times
The New York Times

The New York Times is an American daily newspaper published in New York City. The largest metropolitan newspaper in the United States, "The Gray Lady"?named for its staid appearance and style?is regarded as a national newspaper of record....
 in June 20, 1959: "Financing schools has become a problem about equal to having an elephant in the living room. It's so big you just can't ignore it."

Usage

The term refers to a question, problem, solution, or controversial issue that is obvious, but which is ignored by a group of people, generally out of embarrassment or taboo. The idiom can imply a value judgment
Value judgment

A value judgment is a judgment of the rightness or wrongness of something, or of the usefulness of something, based on a personal view. As a generalization, a value judgment can refer to a judgment based upon a particular set of Values#Personal and cultural values or on a particular value system....
 that the issue ought to be discussed openly, or it can simply be an acknowledgment that the issue is there and not going to go away by itself.

The term is often used to describe an issue that involves a social taboo
Taboo

A taboo is a strong social prohibition against words, objects, actions, or discussions that are considered undesirable or offensive by a group, culture, society, or community....
, such as race or religion
Religion

A religion is an organized approach to human spirituality which usually encompasses a set of myth, symbols, beliefs and practices, often with a supernatural or transcendence quality, that give meaning to the practitioner's experiences of life through reference to a higher power or truth....
.

The idiom is commonly used in addiction
Addiction

The term "addiction" is used in many contexts to describe an obsession, compulsion, or excessive physical dependence or psychological dependence, such as: drug addiction, video game addiction, crime, alcoholism, compulsive overeating, problem gambling, computer addiction, pornography addiction, etc....
 recovery terminology to describe the reluctance of friends and family of an addicted person to discuss the person's problem, thus aiding the person's denial
Denial

Denial is a defense mechanism postulated by Sigmund Freud, in which a person is faced with a fact that is too uncomfortable to accept and rejects it instead, insisting that it is not true despite what may be overwhelming evidence....
. It is sometimes invoked as a "pink elephant
Seeing pink elephants

"Seeing pink elephants" is a euphemism for drunken hallucination, caused by alcoholic hallucinosis or delirium tremens. The first recorded use of the term is by Jack London in 1913, who describes one sort of alcoholic in the autobiographical John Barleycorn as "the man whom we all know, stupid, unimaginative, whose brain is bitten numbly...
", possibly in reference to alcohol abuse
Alcohol abuse

Alcohol abuse, as described in the DSM-IV, is a psychiatric diagnosis describing the use of alcoholic beverages despite negative consequences. It is differentiated from alcohol dependence by the lack of symptoms such as Drug tolerance and withdrawal....
, or for no other reason than that a pink elephant would be more visible than a normal elephant.

Campaign

In March 2008, The Australian Wound Management Association launched a national campaign called 'The Elephant in the Room' campaign . 270,000 Australians suffer from chronic wounds yet it doesn't feature on the political health agenda. It was simply not being talked about despite its prevelance - hence 'The Elephant in the Room' campaign.

Chronic wounds are highly unattractive conversation pieces and hold equally unattractive visuals which is why the campaign enlisted the help of award-winning author Bryce Courtenay. Bryce starred in the campaign's community service announcement alongside the campaign mascot, a bandaged plush elephant.

The Australian Wound Managament Association are the peak body of wound management in Australia.

Film

The title of Alan Clarke
Alan Clarke

Alan Clarke was a television director and film director, producer and writer, born in Birkenhead, Cheshire, England.Most of Clarke's output was for television rather than cinema, including work for the famous play strands The Wednesday Play and Play for Today....
's 1989 short television film Elephant
Elephant (Alan Clarke film)

Elephant is a 1989 in television short film directed by Alan Clarke. The film is set in Northern Ireland during the Troubles. The film's title comes from Bernard MacLaverty description of the Troubles as "Elephant in the room" - a reference to the collective denial of the underlying social problems of Northern Ireland....
 was a reference to this phrase. The elephant in the room in this case was The Troubles
The Troubles

The Troubles was a period of ethno-political conflict in Northern Ireland which spilled over at various times into England, the Republic of Ireland and Continental Europe....
 in Northern Ireland
Northern Ireland

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. The film's title comes from Bernard MacLaverty's description of The Troubles as "the elephant in our living room". In an attempt to illustrate the core of the problem, Clarke's film stripped away all dialogue and plot, showing a series of seemingly unrelated shootings.

Gus Van Sant
Gus Van Sant

Gus Green Van Sant, Jr. is an United States film director, screenwriter, photographer, musician, and author. He was nominated for an Academy Award for Academy Award for Best Director for his 1997 film Good Will Hunting and his 2008 film Milk , and won the Palme d'Or at the 2003 Cannes Film Festival for his film Elephant ....
's 2003 film Elephant
Elephant (film)

Elephant is a 2003 in film crime film-drama film written and directed by Gus Van Sant. It is set on the day of a massive school shooting. The film takes place a short time before the shooting occurs, following several characters as they live out their school lives, unaware of what is about to unfold....
, which is named after the Clarke film, places the idiom in the context of a Columbine
Columbine High School massacre

The Columbine High School massacre occurred on Tuesday, April 20, 1999, at Columbine High School in Columbine, Colorado in unincorporated area Jefferson County, Colorado, Colorado, United States, near Denver, Colorado and Littleton, Colorado....
-style high school shooting
School massacre

School shooting is a term used to refer to gun violence in educational institutions, especially the mass murder or spree killing of people connected with an institution....
—although this was apparently inadvertent, as Van Sant apparently believed Clarke was referring to the fable of the blind men and an elephant
Blind Men and an Elephant

The story of the blind men and an elephant originated from India.In various versions of the tale, a group of blindness men touch an elephant to learn what it is like....
, each perceiving a different object.

In the short animated film Elephants Dream
Elephants Dream

Elephants Dream is a Computer-generated imagery short film that was produced almost completely using the free software 3D suite Blender software ....
, the two main characters appear to exist in a vast machine. The elephant in the room is that the machine appears to be perceived solely by one character and may not actually exist.

Television

On the TV quiz show QI
Qi

In traditional Chinese culture, qi is an active principle forming part of any living thing.It is frequently translated as "energy flow," and is often compared to Western notions of energeia or ?lan vital as well as the Yoga Pranayama of prana....
, a feature of Series E was the "Elephant in the Room" bonus, in which the answer to one or more questions concerned an elephant.

Richard Dawkins
Richard Dawkins

Clinton Richard Dawkins, Royal Society#Fellowship, Royal Society of Literature is a United Kingdom ethology, evolutionary biology and popular science author....
 describes religion as "the elephant in the room" in his television series The Root of All Evil?
The Root of All Evil?

The Root of All Evil? is a television Documentary film, written and presented by Richard Dawkins, in which he argues that humanity would be better off without religion or theism....
:

Music

Radiohead's track "Faust Arp" refers to the term in its lyrics ("The elephant that's in the room is tumbling").

Fat Joe
Fat Joe

Joseph Cartagena , better known by his stage name Fat Joe, is an United States rapper. He is of Puerto Rican people and Cuban people descent and is signed to Imperial Records....
's 2008 album is titled The Elephant in the Room
The Elephant in the Room

The Elephant in the Room is the eighth album by Fat Joe. It was released on March 11 2008. Guest artists and producers include Dre , Lil Wayne, Jackie Rubio, Pooh Bear, Swizz Beatz, J....
.

Literature


Political columnist Ryan Sager entitled his book about the conflict between the Christian right
Christian right

The Christian right is a term used predominantly in the United States to describe a spectrum of right-wing politics Christian political and social movements and organizations characterized by their strong support of Conservatism social conservative and Republican Party values....
 and Libertarians
Libertarianism

Libertarianism is a term used by a political spectrum of Political philosophy which seek to promote individual liberty and seek to minimize or abolish the state....
 for control of the United States' Republican Party
Republican Party (United States)

The Republican Party is one of the two major party contemporary political parties in the United States, along with the Democratic Party . It is often called the Grand Old Party or the GOP....
 "The Elephant in the Room," a play on both the English idiom and the Republicans' elephant symbol.

Prof. Randy Pausch
Randy Pausch

Randolph Frederick Pausch was an American professor of computer science and human-computer interaction and design at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania....
 started his Last Lecture
The Last Lecture

The Last Lecture is a New York Times Best Seller list book written by Randy Pausch, a professor of computer science, human-computer interaction, and design at Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, Pennsylvania, United States....
 by saying, "My father always said, 'if there is an elephant in the room, introduce it!'"

See also

  • Blind men and an elephant
    Blind Men and an Elephant

    The story of the blind men and an elephant originated from India.In various versions of the tale, a group of blindness men touch an elephant to learn what it is like....
  • Elephant joke
    Elephant joke

    An elephant joke is a joke, almost always an surreal humour riddle or conundrum and often a sequence of such, that involves an elephant. Elephant jokes were a fad in the 1960s, with many people constructing large numbers of them according to a set formula....
  • Elephant test
    Elephant test

    The term elephant test refers to situations in which an idea or thing "is hard to describe, but instantly recognizable when spotted." The term is often used in legal cases when there is an issue which may be open to interpretation, such as in the case of Cadogan Estates Ltd v Morris, when Lord Justice Stuart-Smith referred to "the w...
  • The Emperor's New Clothes
    The Emperor's New Clothes

    "The Emperor's New Clothes" is a fairy tale by Denmark poet and author Hans Christian Andersen about an emperor who unwittingly hires two swindlers to create a new suit of clothes for him....
  • Taboo
    Taboo

    A taboo is a strong social prohibition against words, objects, actions, or discussions that are considered undesirable or offensive by a group, culture, society, or community....
  • Polite fiction
    Polite fiction

    Polite fiction refers to a social scenario in which all participants are aware of a truth, but pretend to believe in some alternate version of events to avoid conflict or embarrassment....