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aru15


i want to know if my husband now leave that second woman realizing his faults that he has committed a big sin,and want to make everything right now.usne bola ki ye dusri shadi majburi mein karna para ye idea uske gharvale ne diya hai meri mother in law ne diya unko.meri mom in law naam dhan le chuki hai,muje samaj nahi ati ek ma apne bete ki zindagi aisi barbad kaisi kar sakti hai.my question is if my husband now leave that women to start everyhting again.should i forgive him,kehte hai agar koi galti kare aur pachtaye to bagwan bhi maf karte hai.what should i do now
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blm2
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There appears to be an unbelievable twist to observe such a speedy development in the mind of a man in one day only that one starts realizing one’s sin and gets prepared to leave his second wife. The other part in this twist is that now the girl is blaming her in-laws for their role in this story which was not talked about yesterday at all. Can anyone render any advice in this personal matter by relying on this one sided story, involving two sins by ditching two girls that too on the advice of parents, without use of his own wisdom?

This Forum is neither for mediation nor for sharing views on such personal disputes, particularly on hearing one side of the so called sin and twists of this kind.
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palyal81
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Dear this is up to you.this will be very hard decision for you to leave your husband,because one man can do this kind of fraud so many times , but if women try to do this , she is called charecterless. I know you will not forgive him. but FIRST SEE your economical conditions. can you live without him.agar woh matlab ke liye kaam kar sakta hei to, tumbhi apne matlab keliye uske saath raho, apna matlab nikalne keliye.
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aru15
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i wanted to says its been 3months since we are in this situation.it didnt happen in a day that in one days he starts realising his sins,roz soch rahe hai ki iss situation ke kaise bahar nikal sake.ab vo dire2 bolne lage hai ki ye sab kaise hua aur kisne usko idea diya kaarne ko.yesterday meine itna kaha jitna muje pata tha.

i didnt came in this forum for mediation nor for sharing views,only because i needed some help,understand.
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rajatkwatra
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Do you think that those people who do not have any complete knowledge about your relationship with husband , will be able to advise you.
How you are making fun of yourself?
Only close relatives who knows you and your parents, can advise you on this matter.
We are listening just your part and other side story may be different one which no one of us has access.
So better, make request before those who understand the issue and not on others who have incomplete information and may give you wrong advise.
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blm2
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That is the only best approach not to offer any comments or advice only on hearing something from one side. As otherwise also, this forum is not for mediation in the family affairs that too based on the twisting information being given from one side through internet, leaving lot of gaps in communication.

In no way, sharing of views in such sacred family affairs, can be taken as help by sharing any information in public and how can anyone render help without having listened to the other side of this episode, for which prior consent of the both sides is also necessary to render any such advice acceptable/workable for both sides. In the instant case, even third side is also there. How can the mystery of the second wife be resolved without knowing her side as to how she agreed/got involved for marrying an already married person?

Above all one must also consider as if seeking help, in such a sacred matter, in this manner, is acceptable if it is sought by one’s own daughter or by one’s daughter-in-law?

It is enough by now as has also been rightly opined in the above box.
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aru15
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i think you are right,how wil people who dont have complete knowledge advise me when close relatives and parents dont have the solution,i came in this forum thinking babaji visits this forum and will get an advise.
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palyal81
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WHAT , BABAJI WILL COME TO THIS FORUM???? NEVERRRRR
dear take your own decision.
SARE DINN EK JESE NAHI HOTE, APKE YEH BURE DIN BHI CHALE JAYENGE.
ALL THE BEST......!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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