Radha Soami Satsang Beas
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koyelp
Radhasoami,
satsangi cheat karte hai shaadi ke baad??
main aaj yeh likh rahi hun kyunki maine khud naam to nahi liya..lekin meri didi aur jijaji ne liya hai..aur radhasoami pe hum sab ka bahut vishwas hai...mere behnaui shaadi ke kuch dino ke baad hi apni patni ke alawa doosri aurat ke sampark rakhte the..3 saal tak... bahut mushkil se hum se ne unhe samjhaya to woh maan gaye..ab for woh unki shaadi ke 7 saal ke bad kehte hai ..ki woh apni biwi ( meri behen se) khush nahi hai..koi reason nahi dena chahte .aur sirf kehte hai usse chod do taaki woh doosri aurat ke saath reh sake..mujhe samajh main nai aa raha hai ..ki main kaise unki madat karun aur kaisa ek satsangi aisa kar sakta hai..mujhe darr hai meri didi apni jaan na de de...hum sab pariwar waale bahut pareshaan hai..apni behen ko is halat main nahi dekha sakte ...kya aache karma karne ka koi fal nahi milta...kya koi madat milne ke asaar hai...main aapki bahut shukra gujar hongi agar hume raah dikha sake..humara vishwaas dagmaga raha hai..hum sab haar maan le rahe hai...bahut meherbaani... radhasoami!!
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ssetia
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Radha soami ji,
it is really a tense problem,pls dont loose your faith in babaji,otherwise aur bhi jyada dikkat ho jayegi.apne mann ko yhi samjhaiye ki babaji jo karenge vo galat nhi ho sakta and we can only pray for best.
dont loose faith.
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mamtakukreja
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Radha Soami,
I can understand this is a really tuff time for you. But don't lose heart. Just do meditation and leave everything to His will only. He gives his disciples what is good for them. We should have faith on him.
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rajant
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It is easier said than done, but one has to understand santmat before entering it. As we know that all relationships are predestined as per our past karmas and we can do very little in this regard. Huzur Maharaj Ji used to say that in every condition we should thank God and never lose faith in Guru. We should keep trying to do justice to our duties and remember that we are only repaying our debts, as without repaying our debts we can not get out of clutches of Kaal. Of course trying to devote maximum time to Bhajan Sumiran will certainly give peace of mind and will fetch more and more Daya Mehar from Satguru.
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rajant
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It is easier said than done, but one has to understand santmat before entering it. As we know that all relationships are predestined as per our past karmas and we can do very little in this regard. Huzur Maharaj Ji used to say that in every condition we should thank God and never lose faith in Guru. We should keep trying to do justice to our duties and remember that we are only repaying our debts, as without repaying our debts we can not get out of clutches of Kaal. Of course trying to devote maximum time to Bhajan Sumiran will certainly give peace of mind and will fetch more and more Daya Mehar from Satguru.
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urbrother007
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Jab ek bap apne chote bete ko hava mein uchalta hai to bacha enjoy karta hai kyonki use apne bap pe faith hai ke vo mujhe pakad lega aur niche nahi girne dega . kuch aisa he bharosa chahiye satguru par. dukh bhi dya maher se ata hai , ab dekho na tumhe dukh aya aur tum satgugru ko yad karni lagi,agar sukh hota to kya yad karti ???
soon everything will be alright.
ye ek pariksha hai tumhare babaji par confidence ki.
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godbless1234
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As u know there are number of people ,who belives in santmat & having living guru or devy devtas. first of all the sants come on earth for the spirtual improvemt of man kind not to do any thing with their karams . if ur relative is doing like this then this is not the end of life. it means he could not under stand the menaing of santmat n doesnot mean that there is any problem in RADHASOAMI.Do u know any person in the world who did not do any mistake, But if a person is doing after NAAMDAAN. then he will pay it more larger than else. But At last every thing is written in the god's book anly we have to pass the way ,by laughing or by weeeping . this not a such matter for which ur didi should die. life is god gift use it get GOD.

At last "SIMRAN KARO"

it is not a stamp that if any person is radhasoami then he will not be wrong . It is god's wish whom HE see like good & BAD

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bsingh
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This is an old thread and I hope things improved for better for the original sender; still I'm replying.

There's a letter No. 74 on page 132 in "Parmarthi Patra-II" where the Master advises to a lady who was perhaps in a very similar situation like your sister is. Probably the lady was asking whether she should let go of the husband or not. Crux of the Master's response is that: all that matters is your own conscience; if you have been a good spouse and duly discharged your duties then that is all that's important, so do what is most suitable to you. Now in that particular situation Master apparently allowed the lady to take the decision she wanted because He knew that what she was doing was right. However, in a situation like this it is very easy to overlook our own failures and shortcomings. I may always think that I have been a good husband and discharged all my duties in good fath, but that's not good enough because this is MY OWN view. Does anyone else also think that I've been a good husband? Most importantly my wife shouldn't feel that I was a hopeless husband! Now if that's what she (and probably some others too who care for the couple) feels then this means that my belief that I have been a good husband is misplaced! This honest introspection is needed. If your conscience is clear within then letting go becomes easy; if you are not clear within then honestly opening up to the spouse may restore the things. Personally, I think deep inside our hearts we always know where we stand. From there only flows our strength (or weaknes) to deal with such trials. Now it's a different thing that we usually choose to silence that guiding voice.

Truely following Sant Mat is VERY DIFFICULT. It's like, as they say, throwing one into the ocean with hands and legs tied and saying that don't get wet! Besides, the purpose of the Nam or Initiation into Radhasoami faith is not to absolve one from the pralabdh -- that, as we know, we must go through. But what we can do within our means is to stop our lives from becoming a big reaction to the events and impulses as Baba ji put it yesterday in Lucknow satsang.

Radhasoami!
~B
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akanshaj82
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Madam sahi bol rahe ,mere pati ne ere saath dokha kiya hai...woh bhi kisi satsangi ko chahte hain aur une shaadi karna chahte hai...unhone babaji se pucha ke main dusri shaadi karu ..toh is blog unke bhakto ne reply kiya yes tum kar sakte ho...
Kismat pe kya barosa rakhoge..woh wahan maze se ghoom rahe hai..aur aapki behen ro rahi hai....case karo...andar daalo jail main....
chodhna mat aur mujhe bhi mazboot rehne ki dua karna..
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