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Soniya14
Radha soami babaji.. I m 21 yrs old and i had fallen in love with a 25 yrs old guy through net.. We both love each other but due to other caste ,i am scared that my parent won't agree 4 marriage. My parents had got namdan and the guy whom i love also got namdan bakshish at younger age .Bt he was drinking a little bit as he was not knowing about not to drink after namdan . Bt when i told him he promised me that he wil never drink ever and he is guilty for this big mistake .If i tell my parents about him,may be they willnot agree and his mother also hadnot taken our matter seriously. So, what should we do babaji...Plz. Reply ur child soon..Radhasoamiji. We need your guidence Babaji.
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antichrist
Replied to:  Radha soami babaji.. I m 21 yrs old and i had...
Radha soami ji...!!
I thInk a lot oN your pRoblem and got the soluTioN at last...your parents are namdani(satsangi) and your lvr parents are also ..... And you are scAring cAuse of ur difFern cAst....
Knw reAd cAreFuly...
1st beFore takin any step cnfrm it oNE mORE time that u LOVE hIm or nOt and he loves you truely or nOt....

2nd if you thnk u both lov eaCH other then folLow the folLOwing stepS...
1. Just have faith in bAbaji do meditation (bhajan) and coLleCt courage and power...
2. TelL your parents aBout your story i.e. 'You love a boy who is also satsangI buT he is of diffr cAst'..
3.if your parents dont agree just telL THEM A single sentence ''radhasoami hr bhd bhav cAstism etc. K khIlaf h ...and agr aap hmare rishte k khIlaf ha to aAP RADHA SOAMI k khIlaf h ''

May god bles u .....
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Replied to:  Radha soami babaji.. I m 21 yrs old and i had...
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Soniya14
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Radha soami ji.. Thnk u. For guiding me.. I have full faith on babaji... And i will follow babaji's saying only as i am a learner.... And i will also find that we both truely love eachother or not... I know we do. But i will first assure my self then i will tell to my parents.. And my belief says that they will understand their daughter.. Due to my last year of course , i can't tell them now ,after completing....Babaji has always guided me.. And today also.. I am satisfied with your reply .Thanku. Radha soamiji..
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Soniya14
Replied to:  Radha soami ji...!! I thInk a lot oN your pRoblem and...
Radha soami ji.... One question...We both have nevr lied to eachother.. But when i say him to do meditation as you had got namdan and concentrate on your ma studies . He tells me that i can't concentrate as my mind and heart is on you..When you will be with me, i will do everything whatever you say as i left drinking, i use to remember the guru but i cant meditate...... But i think so ,its wrong we both should do our duty towards god.... M i right or not?
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Soniya14
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Radha soamiji..Today i heard..My parents hv started thinkng of marriage in our caste.. They hd startd searchng for a guy bt mumma says me you concentrate on your study but i can't.. I should tel thm about my love or not? I m cnfusd .Wht 2 do??
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antichrist
Replied to:  Radha soami ji.... One question...We both have nevr lied to eachother.....
Radhasoami .....
I cAn betTer explain to you it in hIndi..
If your lovr got namdan dn he should meDitation or we cAlL it (bhajan) by sitTing in dhyand awastha and concentrating in betweEN eyes on forehead....koi b aj tk mrityu k bAd kuch b apne sath ni le paya na hI le ja skta...dhn dolat , pyr, rishte nate, phechan, aish aram, yha tk ki hmari apni body...kuch b hmare sth ni jate ...buT there is one thIng which we can take with us that is 'nam ki kmayi' ..or ye nam ki kmaiye hme sirf bhkti simrn dvara hI mil skti h...so telL hIm to cncentrate in bhajan ...
One mOre thing I WANT to telL you...namadan cnsist of 5 powerful words....they are magICal wrds....agr koi iska glt use krna chae e.g. In gambling etc. He cAN use..buT ye glt h ..buT i wnt to sugest u that tel ur byfrn to cncentrate and do simran ..radha soami dEfinately hlp u
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1st of alL you remain cAlm and oNly cncentrate oN your stUdies ....2nd have faith oN god and just talK to ur parents ...if they dnt agree then say those wrds whIch i already told you...

ayoupantichrist@gmail.com ..this is my email adres ..for further query snd me mail
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Soniya14
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Radhasoamiji.. Thnx 4 ur reply n guidance. Bt nw.. We had finishd our relatin.. May b we wr nt 4 each other...... Bt i m nt sad.. I m happy that due 2 babajis guidance through making me a medium, he left drinking..... May i ws nt strong 4 my love .. My parents love is much more than him n he ws changed, his trust 4 me was disbalancd.May b i ws his selfish need.. Whatevr it ws. I learn 1 think that i cn also love sm1 .. Thnks babaji .... 4 showng me the rght path....Nw i wil wait 4 rght guy of parnts choice.. Radhasoamiji.
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