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Radha soamijee i am 28 yr old i met this guy through net.now i am in love with him and he also says he love me and we both want to get marry but the problem is i belong to radha soami family and he smetimes drinks.This thing i came to know late he thout i know that he drinks but i didnt Now his family is not approving our relation and above all how can i accept this fact that he drinks He dnt have any problem me going to beas he is also ready to come with me but i dnt know When i think of leaving him i feel really depress plz help me what should i do
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ntchrist3150
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if u love d pRsn by heart and he also love u ...thn just go with hIM bt make sure he wil leave drinkng...

folLow d rules of truTh ...
Radha soami means lord of soul ...if u truly OBEY hIm he wilL dEfinately find the way oUt ...keEp oN goin aHEAD by mOving oN riGht path ... Remain with truTh ...do simran and just be hapPy
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Radha soamijee Thanx for reply but right now main issue is families Right now his dad is creating problem as he dnt want that we go ahead as he dnt want that he leave drink and i dnt know my family will also approve
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drsandeepd
Replied to:  Radha soamijee Thanx for reply but right now main issue is...


hi , PRESENTLY YOU SHOULD DISCUSS WITH YOUR PARTNER HOW IS HE GOING TO DISCUSS WITH HIS FAMILY , PROABLY BOTH OF YOU SHOULD SIT AND FIND SOME SOLUTION TO YOUR PROBLEM .

THANKS RS JI
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pleasehelpme
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RS jee

Thanx for ur reply but i think he himself dnt want to leave drinking habbit Now i am in love with him and its killing me
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drsandeepd
Replied to:  RS jee Thanx for ur reply but i think he...

Rs ji ,
Sorry cant force you to take decision love is on onside and faith is on one side ...but faith is towards the santmat and their following if you follow the footsteps you cant force your partner to do it and evryone has their own beliefs about their life ..now what happens if you partner cant leave the habit of drinking than see your fore future ....sorry may be further he wont let you go to satsang ...may be only ...might be I am wrong .. drinking is not bad ...but in our beliefs it is wrong ...and it is wrong ...in future you will have kids ... definitely you are in love but end of the day you have to decide about your future ...marry a person who will keep your faith and will let you belive in your faith ( that is satsang )...if he belives he cant leave it ...than believe nothing on his words for future about your beliefs ...sorry pls dont take it personally its my opinion ... rest you have to live a life in peace and everyone wants it ...so you are the best judge ...my thinking would be to think hundred times .....before I take step..... infatuation and love might be different ...so judge what would be killing you your love or ..... lastly it wud be you if you dont feel bad he drinks you can cope up than go a head with you life you have your faith thats important might be in future you might be able to persuade him to follow the santmat .....but that is just possibility ...so think and decide ....

any ways sorry words that made you upset ....

mail me on drsandeepd@ gmail.com for any thing you feel I really made you upset sorry again

Thanks and regards

Dr sandeep
consultant neurosurgeon
australia
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pleasehelpme
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Radha soami jee

Well u send me ur reply thanx for that ,no i didnt felt bad what u said I am very depress these days when i think of leaving him i feel as nthing is left He told me he will never say anything reagrding going to beas and he himself will come with me

I dnt know and rest families r there Smetimes i wonder why babajee do all this i know its all my karma maybe i have dne smething wrong to him in my past or dnt know but when i think of leaving him i really feel sick I try to keep myself busy but nthing works and he dnt know what i am thinking
Rest his frd told me that nowdays he do avoid drinking smetimes HE dnt go out with his frds i dnt know bus telling u
Tell me will it effect me anyhow if he drinks related to spritual course if i do mediation so does it effec my karma smething lke that

Thanx for reply
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wizernow
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Look sweet heart Gurinder says he's here to collect the MARKED SOULS that are his,so live your life as full as possible and at the end he will be there for you if it is true, after all its what he's born ,bred and trained for.
Some times a lot of guilt comes into theses Groups,cults ect...
By the way what we call GOD is love and if that is so, marry where God shows and gives you feelings of love..
Good luck to you both
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Soniya14
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Radha soamiji.. Babaji always says that whatevr a person do its his karma.. Nothing can affect us due to other person... Marriage is a relation of trust, truth and respect.. If he truely loves you he will leave drinking habbit or may be when he will lesson to babajis saying.. Radha soamiji.... Babaji will show you the right path....
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