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radhasingh1955
Radha soami ji,
i need help n support to face things in my life
Meri problem ye hai k meri mrg abhi 6 month phle hui hai eventhough ye love mrg hai but love to ab hai hi nhi and my hubby now like someone else in his office, bcz by mistake i read his some chats n sms to that girl after that i was so much upset bt i dont want to ask anything from him, i left each and everything on Babaji and from my side i decided that i wont treat him as a husband i'll consider him as my good friend from now and give him alots of love and care from my side with any expectation from him because i know i dont care for me, but it is really a very tough decision for me and i need internal support bcz my mind takes me in all those things again and again. How i can be strong that much or is there anyother way to solve this problem. Please help me i tried alot daily m fighting with me and getting failure most of the time i spent in cryin
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rineet123verma
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Radha soami g,


I want to tell about your problem that you have to leave this problem on baba g. This is their problem they can tackle this problem easily and you have to do only simran. Every thing will be allright...


GOD BLESS YOU
RADHA SOAMI G..
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radhasingh1955
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Radha soami ji..

Thanks but it is getting tough for me i tried alot to avoid all these things but my mind involves me again and again in same things full day m thinking something something and i feel i will go mad one day. How i can keep my mind away from this.

And without Naamdan can i do simran ? ?

Please guide me..
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rssb123
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Radha soami ji.
App to khud itni syani ho , maine aapke dowara diye hue reply padhe hai, or jab main agle question pe aaya to aap khud hi Question pooch rahe ho. Kya hua ? Dekho je sab Maan ki lajjat ki wajhe se hai. Baba ji aksar satsang main kehte hai ke maan lajjat ka ashiq hai. is liye jab tak use kisi cheej se lajjat aati hai tab tak wo use pasand karta hai. Jab lajjat aana khatam ho jata hai wo or kisi or jata hai. To je kami tab tak rehti hai jab tak mann ko use uchi or sachi lajjat nahi milti. Or wo milegi sirf Bhajan simran se. Kya aap ko ja aapke Husband ko Namdan ki bhakshih hui hui hai???
Ap Baba ji ko letter likhe or han jab v khana bnaya to simran karke bnaye.
Radha soami ji
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majitha
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R.s ji don't worry love is greater than everything believe me love the babaji only . i don't mean to say that don't love him. love him also you said that you take him as a friend only now , no don't take him as a friend love him like a true wife . start looking babaji in him , n he would not go any where away from you , your true love would pull him towards you , everything depends on karmas yes this is true thing but this is also true that we can change everything by increasing our love towards something whether a human god animal plant tree etc. i know how we feel in these type of conditions when we find no one n no any help around us , everything seems to be empty, don't worry see we speak , we walk , we move our hands to perfom something but have you ever thought that how we are moving our hands who is giving us the power to speak , we had't planned every thing that we wud speak this thing on the follwing time , no only the god is there who is giving us the power and it's our choice whether we have to use it in a right way or wrong so baba jiis with you , try to make your love true like mirabai , iknow that's not so easy but try baba ji bless you . have u got naam dan
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Sheenam
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Nhi mujhe abhi naamdaan nhi mila.. age problem.. my age is 25 and my husband is also not a satsangi..
Mai kaafi pareshan thi uss din jis din i asked this question. but now getting some strength and even i'm trying alot to leave each and everything on Babaji. eventhough it is tough for me because within 6 month marriage if we are getting such type of things it really hurts, but ye b sach hai mai really bahut koshish kr rhi hu k mai sab kuch babaji pr chod du and without any expectation apne kam pyar se complete karu. Lets see when i will get success..

And thanks for reply sir, It really gives me suppot. Thanks alot.

And hope will get success soon.

Radha soami.
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Radhaswami ji,
you know i also faced the same situation in my life....and now trying to overcome with it...there was a time when i lost my wish to live....but then i remembered baba ji to give me the strength...and He was always with me....and will be. I cant do anything rather than trusting my husband again....may be he will not do same thing again.....
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rssb123
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Radha soami ji.
Baba ji hamesha hum sab ke aang sang hai. so dont worry.
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radhasingh1955
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Radha soami ji..
Hamari life hi aisi hai.. kher leave kya trust krna or kya umeed rkhni.. But i know that only k babaji gave this Birth for meditation thats it, others are our responsibilities only that we need to fulfil with love and care and also complete our meditation and go out from this world.
No one is ours except babaji, Then why to trust anybody, why to expect anything from anyone.
Remember gurbani's line -
"Hou tis ki aas kr maan mere, jo sb ka sahaii rhya samaye.."
Bus only babaji hai hamare, or koi nhi so sb duties puri kro without any expectation. Then only we can overcome otherwise all these things will kill us.
Laddo khud se and her time mind babaji ki tarf rkho and let everybody enjoy their life. If we did anything wrong will suffer rest dont think anything.
Malik hai hamare sath chahe dikhe chahe na dikhe just trust on Him and dont be so helpless. Lets fight and wait for Babaji only. One day He will come and take us... that is life..

Radha soami.........
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radhasingh1955
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And Maharaj ki ye baat hamesha yaad kro..

Duniya me rhna hai surme baan kr rhna hai bahadur baan k rhna hai duniya me rh kr iss ki gandgi me nhi mix hona

And according to babaji :-
Tum bus meditation kro vo svarth b banayega and parmarth b.

Maine ye baatein bahut muskil se apne dimag me set kr li hai and now feeling so much better.. Thats why only advicing you. Bcz we both are in same position and hope it will help us .

Eventhough it is very though and very slow to prepare mind like this but we have to try no other option. Babaji hai na hamare pass then or kya chaiye jo hoga dekha jaayega... He knows better...

Radha soami...
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RAdha soami ji.
Ji ap ne bilkul thek kaha. Good luck for u both.
Shej pakke so meetha hoye.
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radhasingh1955
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Radha soami sir,

Shej pakke so meetha hoye.

Shi hai bus wait kro or malik ko yaad rkho bcz or hum kuch kr b nhi skte... Jo hona hai vhi hona hai.. Koi kb tk ro skta hai vhi sb soch - soch kr..

jo jaise hota hai hota rhe.. jitna jyada soche ge uthna jyada dhuk hota hai.. So better to ignore all the things..

No other option.. Give our best without any expectation..

Radha soami...
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Radha soami ji
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radhasingh1955
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Radha soami Sir,

And really thanks.. this thinking you only gave... M really

Infact this overall forum is very helpful . Thanks for its owner also and other person who are helping each other without any expectation. Please be continue ..

thankful to you.

Thanks alot..

Radha soami..
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