See, you dont need to force your husband and in- laws. What you have to do is, just medidate babaji. If you really really do meditation from your heart, babajee is always there to hold the hand of their child/follower. N always try to do one thing, just meet those people in front of your home mates who is satsangis or try to tell them about baba ji..

Then see, how babajee works for you..

Radha swami

RadhaSoamiji

Aap apne pati se itna pyaar karien itna pyaar karien aur andar babaji ke satsang ki chahat rakhein agar aapke pati phir bhi na maane to unke kadamon mein jhuk kar haath jod kar aagya len kyunki babaji ka hukam bhi yahi hai. Aapke pati jarur aapko ijaajat de denge.

The story is similar to my friend who has married a RSSB follower girl. The girl started going to satsang without taking permission from his husband (my friend) and in-laws.
Also she started avoiding the visit with them to their guru ghar. She also avoided to fulfill her responsibilities in her new home.
Now the situation is that they are living very stressfull life and number of times they have fight between themselves.
In this situation, the responsibilities lies with the parents of girl.
They should educate her and taught her that after marriage if your family did not go to RSSB satsang then you should not insist them but you should join them in their guru ghar.
The real goal of life is to pray and remember GOD and the work of Guru is also to achieve that goal.
We should not fight for the route to be chosen for a certain destination if the destination is same.
GOD loves every child and did not care that who ever guru you are obeying. And which guru is right and who is wrong, that knowledge is not in our mind but we should always pray him that we did not knew anything and give us that guru through which we can reach him.