Radha Soami Satsang Beas
RSSB bans sex after having two kids. Does it mean RSSB forces divorce after having two kids?
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Denial for SEX is a valid ground for DIVORCE!

In this regard, Desertion is one among grounds for Divorce.

Desertion – If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for at least a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.

DELHI HIGH COURT Judgment appearing in various NEWS Papers on 15th October, including in HINDUSTAN published in DELHI.

While taking sex as essential ground for a married life, DELHI HIGH COURT has concluded that if either of wife or husband denies sex for a long duration, it can be taken as valid ground for seeking a divorce.

While pronouncing this judgment, it is immaterial as if the couple is living together or living away from each other.

The bench comprising of Justice Ravinder Bhatt and Nazmi Vaziri dismissed an appeal filed by a wife against the verdict of a Family Court and said that the couple having started living together from 2009 after resolving all the issues between them, facts were clear that despite all this the wife continued denying sex to her husband.

While upholding the judgment of Family Court, the HIGH COURT said that there had been no sex relation between the couple for last 8-9 years because the wife had been living, away from her husband, in GUJRAT, which proves beyond any doubt that there had been no sex relation between them.

The HIGH COURT also ignored false allegations laid by the wife as an act full of cruelty and a valid ground for divorce. The wife had alleged that her husband had illicit relations with her sister-in-law. The wife had married in 1986 and had a son also.

In view of this judgment, the teachings of RSSB, to ban sex after having two kids, amount to forcing its disciples to live a divorced life on the ground of ‘Desertion’ alone being full of cruelty.

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Else all RSSB FOLLOWERS/SATSANGIS, who were following such guidelines in married life, could be treated living as divorced/broken married life style.

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NANDINI06
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Radha swami g
aap ko kis na bol diya ki after two kids ka bad rssb main sex ban hai. baba g hamesha ya kehta hai ki hma apna karam karna chayia unho na duniyavi chesso ko band karna ka lia man nai kra wo khud bi married hai or wo kehta hai ki hma apna farz nibhana chaya eh bi ek farz hai is ko ek farz smazo or saath saath malik ki bandgi bi kro
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NANDINI06
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Radha swami g
aap ko kis na bol diya ki after two kids ka bad rssb main sex ban hai. baba g hamesha ya kehta hai ki hma apna karam karna chayia unho na duniyavi chesso ko band karna ka lia man nai kra wo khud bi married hai or wo kehta hai ki hma apna farz nibhana chaya eh bi ek farz hai is ko ek farz smazo or saath saath malik ki bandgi bi kro
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While wishing the above concept to be in line with RSSB philosophy, it is required to be supported with some authoritative denial, of what has been claimed by a large number of SATSANGIS, who are living a divorced life style within four walls of their family by denying sex to their spouse and affording all type of stress under the pretext of being true devotees of RSSB.
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I think RSSB do not bans sex with own wife. It bans each sexual desire with other persons(not bans it with his/her own parner) own partner.
However it also gives teachings that one should must controll his sexual desires in order to attain high spirtuality ! As said above 2 ban sex after 2 kids means use of sex must be only for reproduction(actually it is) not for enjoyment !
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0027
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Such unethical restrictions, on sexual life, are being imposed on spouse by RSSB SATSANGIS under the pretext of attaining higher level of spirituality/inner progress/meditation.

For all purposes, such restrictions are termed as 'Desertion' for Divorce in Family Courts, forcing SATSANGIS to lead a life like that of divorced couples.

'Desertion :– If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for at least a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.'

So there is a need to change this self made attitude being followed without any such directions by RSSB GURU, who rightly does not teach about any restrictions on sex with legitimate spouse. Yes! while doing so one must/may follow family planning norms as per need of the society/family.
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Sorry, but to make sure that this is something RSSB wants, can you provide the source for the above snippets?
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