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marabu
9/10/09
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As sallamu alikum, my dad has change his religion from being Muslim now to a Christian, at first i was sad, but as time progres i realized that he actually hates Islam, this made me angry, i try ed to convince him by giving him books video tapes but nothing seems to work, i have finally accepted the fact that he will not change his mind, so my questions is what should i do.
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whiten
9/16/09
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Hi there.
When some thing happens,like in this case, "a change",from what ever to what ever, the main point,I think, lies with the reason (why) and the way it happened (how). The "why" and the "how" define "what" (happened), I think.
In this light, my first advice to you will be to try first to understand the situation as best as you can, considering all aspects, by been a bit more compassionate.
From my understanding of the God's Religion,I have learned that we must be as much helpful as we can and whenever we can (especially with the family) , but we must be not excessive even when it comes to a well intended help.
It is explained that trying to help when you are not asked to (for), has it's limits.
Overdoing it, breaking these limits, it will put the one in the position of the infringing and conditioning of the free-will of the other.
Generally in such cases the reaction (counter-reaction), which is unavoidable, it will be by the same means, by the infringement and conditioning of the free-will from the other side to the helper.
And this will be the very reason to start a cracking, severing and the breaking of the link between the parties concerned ( in this case you and your father, your dad).
You have to be very careful and make sure you do not over do it and break the limits.
Koran does instruct and aid towards the compassion, especially with the family.
One must always be polite, compassionate, attending and loving to his parents.Must try not to raise the tone of his voice no matter what.One must honer his parents.
In this light I wold say that you make the most to understand the situation through compassion and try not to be judgmental.
Also make sure that your father,your dad knows that you,his son,are still there as ever,to attend help regardless of the situation,and without strings attached and whenever asked for.
Then the rest is up to your dad, I think.
Try not to push it. does not help.
Please you have to understand, that you do not capitalize on what I am saying. You have to think for your self and in the end you have to make your own independent decision.
Beside I may have misunderstand the situation.
hope this be of some help.
Cheers good luck.
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ChrishTiyan
9/10/09
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Kim Clements music gives inner peace to your soul. He is a modern prophet that sends Gods words through his music. Kim Clement
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