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Is there a place for homosexuality in satmat?
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Soul
Hi there I have grown up in a santmat family and have only recieved bad rap that I about being gay!
I believe 100% in the santmat teachings, but am yet to hear of santmats views are on homosexuality!
Very Very Very confused about this topic.
Would love to hear of other people that have read or hear of infomation on this topic or in the same position.

Radha Swami.
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gauravgarg
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Radha soami ji, i have found this sight 2day only to ask d same question. i have got namdan 3 years back and me 30 years old. my homosexuality is not taking me up. i have no friend whom i can discuss this all. i love straight and smart boys and was in love for six times. now, i m very confused. even, i havnt heard of homosexuality in sant mat. i cant even write a letter to babaji for my query as i may get reply at home address which i dont have. is there any email address.
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pierce47
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In Sant Mat: It has been quite clear to suppress your worldly desires and raise your awareness to the eye level. The Sole & the only goal to "Raise your awareness out of the body and 9 portals of the Body".

Indirectly it also forbids sex .. ( KAM) part of KAM< KRODH < LOBH MOH & Ahnkar.. the 5 desires or agents that keep us tied down in this creation. & since you cannot be involved in sex ( except for Procreation) hence homo sexuality is nothing but recreation sex that shoots down the Homo sexuality. For that matter all sexuality for fun ( once again except only if you want to have a kid ).
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pierce47
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In Sant Mat: It has been made quite clear to suppress your worldly desires and raise your awareness to the eye level. The Sole & the only goal to "Raise your awareness (soul) out of the body and 9 portals of the Body".
It forbids sex .. ("KAM") & since you cannot be involved in sex (except for Procreation) hence homo sexuality is nothing but recreation sex... that directly shoots Down all kind of sex for fun (once again except only if you want to have a kid that means No rubbers No Pills No abortions ( abortion is killing that again is a sin)) ).

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satsangi1990
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Dear Brother/Sister, Radha-soamiji,Sex is nothing but one of the five negative elements which stops us to advance in our inner journeys.Its purely our decisions and resposibillities to safeguard our intrest and to experience more peace and bliss in our innerself as thought by our beloved satguru.
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jai4dev
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Dear I strongly think that sant mat would not have answer for your question,it not like other major religions of the world that have their own constitution and philosophy and refer to all the questions one might have,Sat Mat is a blend of all the religions of the world which does not have their own hard and fast customs,rituals or comments,in my opinin,DO NOT FEEL BAD ABOUT UR SEXUAL ORIENTION,MAKE YOUR CHOICE,BE CONFIDENT ABOUT IT,DO ALL THE OTHER DUTIES IN A BEST POSSIBLE WAY AS A SATSANGI AND AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING.DO YOUR BHAJAN SIMRAN ETC.AS WELL.SOME THING YOU CAN NOT CHANGE.....WHY BOTHER TO FEEL BAD ABOUT IT.I WOULD SAY GOD HAS GIVEN IT TO YOU,FIND YOUR PARTNER WHO IS EQUALLY CONCERNED,PEOPLE WILL REACT IN NEGATIVE WAY AS THEY ALWAYS DO.JUST DO NOT CARE
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akanksha
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Sant mat is a blend of all religion.
Where babaji teaches us to find the inner soul
Is it right for someone to leave a person just because he belong to some other religion.
I loved him for 4yrs and now he says that I cannot marry you because you were christian.
His mother told that we only want a radha soami family girl. Doesnt babaji teach you that everyone is same.
I believe in babaji ...but is it my fault that I wasnt born in one family who have different believes.
I am heartbroken and trying to put all my strength in his bhakti. pls babaji if u can listen to my soul ..bless me. Ussay thodi si samjh do.He has and his family is babaji followers throughout their life so how
could they take his name and do something against his teachings just for society sake. He lived with me for 4 yrs and now he is getting married to someone next month. His parents are not ready to listen to me. His mom travels beas every second month. How could they :(
Is it ok to feel cheated?
Is there a way someone help me in this .
I live in canada. May I know when babaji is coming back for satsang?
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harvinder
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Radhaswami

These are all materialistic pleasures. Get over them. Do sumrin and Bhajan as much as u can. You will see the difference. You wont find them good at doing anymore. You will enjoy GOD's name.

NASHA KAROOO TO AAIISA KAROOO JO EKK BAAR CHADKE KABHI NAHI UTARRE.....MAALIK KE NAAM MEIN WAAHI NASHA HAIN.....

DO SUMRIN AND BHAJAN and enjoy this vry beautiful life


Radhaswami
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Gurinder singh is a child molestor. He was caught in Spain for sexual abuse towards children. His wife used to work in a bar as a pole dancer. His teachings are fake. He just runs a family business and people like you attend his meetings which simply proves you guys are without brains.

- Radha belongs to Krishna not Swami
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jai4dev
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Your posting belong to you as its signed by gurindersingh(your name)which club your wife performs at ?
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katariaa
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Keep this sick bit of info about yourself to yourself.

When man is a loser and a failure he seeks faults in others. Whatever you have written clearly indicates that you have nothing positive to contribute therefore are a lost soul. I pitty you, may Babaji forgive you. I certainly will not forgive you for writting such disgusting details about my satguru, you ought to die of shame, what do you wish to achieve? Its none of your business what goes on in the world. You obviously are no scholar or genious which is clear from what you have written you absolute idiot. If you have nothing positive to write about please keep your lurid, ridiculus comments to yourself. Be afraid for you will pay for each comment you make. The jews paid for what they inflicted on christ and you too will pay, you pathetic waste of space. If you are burning in the desire to abuse children and marry a pole dancer you must'nt accuse others of these crimes. Disgusting minds make disgusting accusations. Go hang yourself like Judas did, at least you'll save yourself from shame.
***Prove what you say if you have any evidence****
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Vckypaldocu
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Radha Soami Ji,

It's true that Kaam is one of the five negegive element
in Santmat's way but what happens if a man has taken Naam
and his wife has not taken and both are newly married.
I like to ask this thing to the people that if a couple is newly married (say only 8 months marrige)and husband decides to take naaam and his wife is not taking any Naam.
In that situation what that man should do ? Should he go for the sex just for his wife's sake or should he say NO to her wife ? And if he says NO to his wife than what would be the condition of his wife listen that.

Please provide the answer.
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reenapaul
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Hallo baba ji
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wizernow
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Im buggered if i know
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angel2000
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If you cant say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
Would you like it if someone said the same thing to your family or you ? You need to learn to respect people and their family when someone says something about someone it means there not happy with them self learn 2 respect
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angel2000
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If you cant say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
Would you like it if someone said the same thing to your family or you ? You need to learn to respect people and their family when someone says something about someone it means there not happy with them self learn 2 respect
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angel2000
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If you cant say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
Would you like it if someone said the same thing to your family or you ? You need to learn to respect people and their family when someone says something about someone it means there not happy with them self learn 2 respect
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Cosmicsense
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Radha Swami Ji,
Friend refer to the satsangs by Huzur Maharaji & Babaji mentioning that "Attachment causes detachment". To get rid of 5 senses we have to practice to control them gradually. They also suggest that control by force will always result into reactions which could be more devastating. The nature has given us good & bad powers and we are expected to be more balanced by practice & not by force. We also have to carry out the responsiblities of our family as a husband, father,wife, son etc. If the objective of merging with Lord is clear we will learn to balance everything with his grace. By being adament or going to extremes we will end up facing reaction from family members, friends and within & our situation will become worse. That is why the satsangs are held every week so that our mind (Mann) is put back on track & we keep on improving our situation gradually.
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Radha Swami Ji,
Friend refer to the satsangs by Huzur Maharaji & Babaji mentioning that "Attachment causes detachment". To get rid of 5 senses we have to practice to control them gradually. They also suggest that control by force will always result into reactions which could be more devastating. The nature has given us good & bad powers and we are expected to be more balanced by practice & not by force. We also have to carry out the responsiblities of our family as a husband, father,wife, son etc. If the objective of merging with Lord is clear we will learn to balance everything with his grace. By being adament or going to extremes we will end up facing reaction from family members, friends and within & our situation will become worse. That is why the satsangs are held every week so that our mind (Mann) is put back on track & we keep on improving our situation gradually.
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Radhas swami ji. I am a girl i aam born in a radha swami family. I am a lesbian. I have fear that being a homosexual may be a sin! Will my homosexuality seperate me from babaji? Or homosexuality is ok without sexual relations?
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Waheguru
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Wrong !!

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