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LoveLoveLove
Is he flirting or just trying to say he sees me as a friend? He pats me on the back and pushes me when saying goodbye. The pushing is more like a shove like a male would do as though starting a fight. What does this mean?
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alexholland
Replied to:  Is he flirting or just trying to say he sees me...
When a guy likes a gal, he does everything for her... He picks up her book if she drops it! Opens the door for her! Even tough guys go mellow when they're with their cheerleader girlfriends. That is how it is supposed to be...

Men are masculine in nature and they know that for a fact... even a wimpy man knows that! I, myself, find it very rude to push a girl how much more if you compare it to something like he does when he wants to start a fight? but if you guys know each other pretty well then i guess that pushing usually comes naturally just like how I treat my close friends...

In short, the mere fact that he taps you on your back and pushes you when he's saying goodbye means that he already treats you as a closest of friends and if you really like the guy, do not dismay! He may eventually notice you and from what i've heard relationships that started from friendship are much more stronger than those built from scratch(strangers perse)!

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Alex Holland
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ubl1
Replied to:  Is he flirting or just trying to say he sees me...
I would say he is keen. We did some study on this very subject recently and it is a form of flirting. So when he is shoving you, don't be offended, be flattered. And give him some friendly tude back if you would like him to be more than a friend. Check out our page

http://www.ultimatebodylanguage.com/attraction/

It will list out some other indicators which could be useful to you.

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Dave
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