What's ur ques plz?

As i wrote on 28.05.12 also under the topic my difficult life and no solution,i got married 10 years back.i have ten and three years old kids.my husband from the starting hides everything from me.he is now in love with a girl.spends time on phone and video chat with her.spends a lot of money on her.remains thinking when has to be at home about her.tell lies that i do nothing you prove it.all our relatives tried but he is not leaving her.my inlaws are not ready to take me and kids with them,they say without our son you cant come.he says wife to her,he cares for her,make fun of me and say her that i am a monster.how can i live in such a situation what should i do ,what is my fault that from 10 years i am only living as a sufferer only.will my life be good sometime.what will happen ,i cry,cry a lot.i can not say anything to anybody as my life is totally full of sadness.how and when he will leave her.all this hurts me or i will lose everything,and he will be hers only.please help me please...
thanks.

Hi. I read your post & think lots about your problem. Seriously it’s big problem. I suggest you that give him divorce and also said the he take the responsibility to your children, & you trying to find out a job for yourself. Trying to keep yourself busy. And don't show them that your life is stop without them. Be happy, I am sure that one day everything will be ok.

Radhaswami ji,
Again i am in trouble,that i can not live a life of divorcee.i want that his mind should be made clear,baba ji can do everything,will he not help me.ask baba ji why he gave so much of love for him to me,if at last he thought to send a message of divorse.i can not do it . i want life with him or death.ask baba ji to take lives of me and my both kids.every problem will be solved , if he can not solve my this problem.otherwise,send my message to baba ji in your this world,a true loving wife is crying..weeping..dying..but you are sleeping.in last 6-7 months,i have seen hell on this earth,even having faith on baba ji.will it break now.baba ji,please talk to me,help me.give me my husband back again or take these three lives which are extra,back.
PLEASE SEND MY MESSAGE TO BABA JI.I WANT HIS REPLY.I AM HIS DAUGHTER.HE HAS TO REPLY ME FAST.
RETURN ME MY HUSBAND OR TAKE THESE THREE LIVES BACK.I CAN NOT BEAR ANY MORE.EVERYDAY IS LIKE A BURDEN ON ME .KINDLY TREAT IT AS A SPECIAL CASE.AND TALK TO BABA JI REGARDING IT. radhaswami.

I feel so sorry for you. And I understand that you will only ever marry once. You should take no notice of hes stupidity you do need your own qualifications and support networks good on you for reaching out. Understand that he has only a mistress and is looking for a way to make life more fulling and he will have to take the consquences. You be your own person im sure he still loves you. Fill yourself with unconditional love. You are not alone.

Thanks sir,for your reply.even after so many days i got reply from u.sir,situation here is,he wants to leave her,but she is not ready and forse him to talk and do everything.she calls thousands time day and night,send msgs.,mails etc.i have lost faith also . so , can not understnd,what to do.how she will leave? i dont know what he is doing,what will happen.only i can say,i can not bear more ask babaji,to solve all this soon.
Radhaswami.

Respected sir, After so many days i am writing as i have lost everything .my husband is getting punishment and has lost all the money and every hope of life.But still my life is finished.me and my kids are suffering.we have to listen bad words of everybody.we are now living with my inlaws,but we have lost all respect.we cry all the time..my kids ask for papa...they ask me several questions,which i can not answer.Why i got such a pityful life...will my whole life be in troubles....what will happen to my husband...should i get divorse now....or i should lead a pityful life here...
radhaswami.

Sir i replied to you on 5.8 12 . please read my post and reply me .thanks.