Hi. I am a 60 year-old widow who is has been dating a 63 year-old man for the last 18 months. He is recently divorced and has two adult children, who don't live at home.
His ex-wife is 16 years younger than him and he said they remained good friends and he will always help her. She phones him whenever she is in town and she stays at his house and uses his car. He pays her alimony. She is on his life, health and car insurances. He told me to trust him and not to worry.
I love this man but he told me that sometimes he loves me sometimes and sometimes he doesn't.
He jokes about my age and said his friends told him he should be dating a younger woman. I walked in on him when he was viewing pictures on line of woman who are looking for husbands.
I have been a widow for six years, Please give me some advice. Is this relationship doomed or do we even have a relationship. What do I do?