I think any of one does not have any answer to your question so i suggest you to post a letter to baba ji at dera.. i am sure he will help you and take action which is right for you... beleive him..


radha soami ji

Radha Soami ji.
Dekho yeh thek hai ke ap dono shaddi karwana chahte hain,Lekin jab tak aap apne ghar walon ko nahi btao ge ke ap ek doosre se shadi karwana chahte ho to unhe kaise pata chale ga? OR rahi apki baat aap ab shaddi ke layak ho gai hain to apke ghar wale to apki shadi ke bare main soche ge hi. Unhe thoda pata hai k ap ko kisi ke sath pyar hai ja ap shadi karwana chahte ho kisi se. So Mere khyal se to ap dono apne ghar walo ko bta de. BAki jaisa Insan Bajaj ji ne kaha k baba ji ko letter post kar de.
Radha soami ji

ghar wale tbi kuch kre jb hum unko btae bt main chahti hu bt kru par

Wo to baat nai krna chahta ghar abi he is not understanding my situation .wo b ek sewadar h main khu ki bt krni hai wo kehta h abi wait krenge main nahh to gusa krta hai main kya kru babaji plz help ur child .luv u babaji.radha soami ji

Radha soami ji..
Dekho ji baat to apko karni hogi fir hi kuch hoga agar ap dono shaddi karna chahte ho to? Us se ek bar khul ke pooch lo k wo ap se shadi karna chahta hai ja nahi? ho sakta hai k wo aapse shadi karna hi na chahta ho?
Ja aap uska Id mere ko de do main us se pooch leta hu ki problem kya hai?
And I m not baba ji main to ek insaan hun apke jaisa . so dont call me Baba ji.
Radha soami ji.

Hmmm.mujhe nai lag rha usko shadi karni hai ya usko pyar b tha kyki usko kai hafte beet jate hai mera pta tk nai krta jb uska man kra gusa kiya chila diya jb uska man kiya sory bola dto pyar esa nai hota hai na pyr ka to ek ansu se b dukh hota hai.or apko veerji kh skti hu kya bec apne ek bde bhai k trh mere bare me socha smjhayj .thanku ..bht sara apko to veerji khu ya nai.ya jo ap khe.or wo n chahta shayad mujge apni life me lana to koi bt nai bt dil tod diya dukh jyda lga ki wo mere babaji ka bnda tha.bt ap btana apko kya khu.radha soami ji

Radha soami ji
Dekho sare hi bande malik ke hai. Or Insaan galtiyon ka putla hai. Or Baba ji apne sewak ke liye wahi karte hai jo Unko thek lage or sewek ke liye acha ho. To kabhi kabhi hum Baba ji par dosh lgate hai Baba ji ap ne aisa kyu kiya? Baba ji humara bhala chahte hai or jo v karte hai aapne bhale ke liye karte hai. To ap Baba ji par vishwas rakhe jo wo kare ge aap dono k bhale k liye kare ge.
Or hanji ap muje kuch v keh sakte ho jo aapka maan chahe. but Baba ji nahi.
Radha Soami ji.

Hmmm..wo khta hai kuch baton se pyar kam ho gaya to kya veerji esa hota hai jinko hum pyar krte hai wo chahe jitni b galti kre pyar kam nai hota hai na balki fikr ho jati hai btaeye veerji .
Radha soami ji

Radha soami g. hanji ap sahi ho lekin agar pyar sacha ho to.

Ab wo mjhe manana chahta hai bt veerji pyar majak nai khel nai uska pyar pyar hi nai jo wo mjhe apni life me dkhna n chahta bht rulaya bht bht bht.bt thnku veerji ab smjh gai babaji ne kuch acha likha hai mere liye haina.lots of luv babaji and luv u veerji thanku

Radha Soami g .
thanks muje nahi baba ji ko karo. and thnx muje itna pyar dene k liye.
Radha Soami g