Radha Soami Satsang Beas
All ur followers only listen u but not follow the path told by u , my mother-in lw is one of that
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19841985
All ur followers only listen u but not follow the path told by u , my mother-in lw is one of that personality. She is Pathi but not ahuman being.
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jagdishkumar
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Dear writer,This is your personal or family matter .you will never blame on all followers.Fix at your end many people have same problem but it will take time to fix sure you will do too.So just have patience. Sorry to say May be your way of undrstanding is wrong.
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No inner progress can be made in spirituality without making outer progress by displaying unconditional love for the family and society at large.
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Fellowbrother
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Sister,

it saddens me to hear your upset and hurt. However, we do not know what we have done to such people in our previous lives.

I don't know if this is true or not but someone told me once that a lady also complained to Baba Ji that her mother-in-law was very cruel to her. Baba Ji explained that the mother-in-law was still treating the daughter-in-law better than when the two of them were in a previous life. In that previous life, the daughter-in-law (in whatever body she was in) made the mother-in-law sleep outside and hardly ever let her eat properly. Again, I'm not sure if this is a true story but the principle is still there - we don't know what we have done to others in our past lives.

As for your mother-in-law being a Pathi but not a very nice person - the purpose of doing seva is to clean the vessel so that it is ready to receive the shabad. People like that need to do seva - how else will they become better humans?

Inside of yourself do not accept the negative comments from your mother-in-law. As Buddha explained, if a messenger brings a parcel but a person does not accept it, the parcel will go back to the sender. Ignore your mother-in-law's comments - let them go in one ear and out of the other. Her cruel comments and feelings will then go back to her.

As Huzur Maharaj Charan Singh Ji used to say - if you put strong boots on your feet, then the thorns of the world cannot hurt you. Become strong in yourself.

Good luck
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