Radha Soami Satsang Beas
About my difficult married life.
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monikach
Respected baba ji, radhasoami. why i am facing so much difficulty.nothing is in my hands.how can god be so cruel to me.shall i be a loser.can 't i have a normal life.what is my fault.where it will stop.shall i ever get true love of my husband or he will go ... what is written in my destiny. please be kind to me and my children,baba ji .return me my husband and a simple normal life having love of god. reply me pleaseeee.... thanks.
i also want u to bless me with naam daan as i m a follower of this mat since childhood.but my husband is against. however we came for darshan at sikanderpur once.but first solve my this problem that he has an affair and i can not bear it.please turn his heart.do not snatch my children's father.they are so innocent and have no fault. please reply soon,so that i may not take any hasty decission. thanks.
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anuverma
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Radha soami ji, Don't get hopeless. be faith on baba ji and on God. i know that i am not so experienced and great that i cam able to guide some one . But dear sister as u tell that ur husband not like ur satsang involvement. SO, Please u should firstly loyal to him and try to do all the things which he likes. Baba ji don't said that it is necessary to come to satsang , firstly u should have to give priority to ur husband and family . If u want to do simran then do it at ur home. Give importance to ur husband first. When u become devote towards ur husband then he become habituals for u and ur care after then u can able to show ur importance in his life. If he is having affair with some body alse then don't be get nervous because nobody can take the place of wife these type of affair will be remain staible till the person is having money , if such type of help will be stopped by ur husband then that lady will definitely left him. BE happy with ur children, if they r with u then the whole world is with u. When ur husband feel alone without all of u only then he knows.
take care and bye
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monikach
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Respected mam, radhasoami. first, i am feeling lucky that baba ji sent me a message through you. still i have some things to ask. please guide me as i am in a great trouble.my husband also loves her,he tell lies to me,he hides things,he thinks about her a lot,he talks to her,he comes home late.also that girl says,their love is true and they are fighting a battle and they will win one day.will my husband go to her...will my children be spoiled...all our relatives are worried that what will happen in our future.we can not trust on him as he always says do not ask me anything or you are free to do anything what you want.what to do .how to live life...iam so upset that i can not do household works even all the time icry....what will happen please guide me..as u are my last hope on which i can trust....please guide me. thanks.
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anuverma
Replied to:  Respected mam, radhasoami. first, i am feeling lucky that baba...
Mam Radha soami first of all,

Your husband is absolutely fine, he said true word that "they fight a battle'. Because he does not know this thing that with u and childer he is totally alone that's y every step of life is like a battle. Mam is that lady is also married. Sorry if i ask something wrong.

As i told u earlier that pls give importance to ur husband, not for this thing that u need him, only for that u realise ur importance. Don't say anything to him, have patience. If u don't say anything to him as well as give importance then after sometime he reals e that what will happen that my wife doesn' interfere. Dear give importance for sometime after then i will tell what to do. Because kabhi kabhi kise bhgdhea kam ko sudharne ke lige khud sudharna pad taa hai phir sudharna pad ta hai.But you not have to tell all these thing to your children. and try to busy herself in take care of them . And if r not working then pls try for that also. i m also Hr in m reputated MNC. for any help let me know. Bye dear.
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monikach
Replied to:  Mam Radha soami first of all, Your husband is...

Radhasoami mam, u say very true when i do not say anything he remains happy that no body is catching me.i am also a teacher mam.i give tuitions.and that girl is unmarried but had relations in past with somebody else.now the problem is that he is daily sending him money to talk etc..he might be doing something wrong to earn that money for her.this way,may be in future,he will be in trouble,which will affect all of us.when i talk to him he say that i am doing nothing.u prove it.can i do anything to solve it;or i should remain quiet.i can see that in coming time something can happen ,either we will have to pay money if he is borrowing or if doing something wrong then any thing can happen.we are a middle class family.please guide me mam as it gives me relief when i hear from u.i think that baba ji is guiding me through u.i also want to know taht how long all this will go..thanks.
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anuverma
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Radha soami ji
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monikach
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Respected mam, so many days have passed and things are changing,still my fear is continue.my husband tried to go to her but we stopped him .then he did not talk to her also he is saying that he wants to live peacefully.but what i can see is she does all what she can do .she gives miss call after every half an hour. she is sending her photographs to him.she will not leave him.she will again trap him.my husband when not talking to her remain uneazy ,he look at phone several times ,he mail her too.he thinks of her a lot.he is not changing his number even,using same mail ids.what is in his mind and heart,i can not guess.will he be able to control himself,or she again will be able to make him call,talk etc.tell me how can i help him,when sad he says dont talk or ask me anything.he is also sending mails and say i am not doing anything. that girl says u r my husband,iknow u also love
and miss me.i will wait for u for my whole life.can u tell
mam what should be my role now.
am i doing something wrong. radhasoami,mam.
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rssbdinesh1323
Replied to:  Respected mam, so many days have passed and things are changing,still...
Radha soami mam .....

never loose your hope....baba ji is always with you...
the girl that is in ur husband's life will definitely leave ur husband soon....just believe on baba ji.....and soon ur life become happy.......
baba ji kahte hai na.....uske ghar der hai ander nahi....

so never loose ur hope....be patience and don't said wrong to ur husband....listen baba ji's shabads and read their books....

make him happy always....do ur husband sewa faithfully...
i promise you that ur life soon become happy....
radhasoami.....ji

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rssbdinesh1323
Replied to:  Respected mam, so many days have passed and things are changing,still...
Radhasoami g...
left all on the baba g....
if u trying to solve this matter by ur owns then you can't do...you just rigt behave with him...and leave all on baba g...
if u left all on baba g...then they will definitely do in your favour....
so we all wish you that soon you become happy life....
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monikach
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Radhasoami mam, I do not know weather it will happen or not,what u say.This game that it will over...is going on since january.That girl is getting success...My husband becomes emotional and make her happy.She lives in philipines.Her mobile nos. are 00639158515943 and other is 00639225571290. Can u please talk to her or somebody of radhasoami mat there can help me to make her understand.If it is possible,please send someone there,satsang ghar might be there..someone of our radhasoamis can talk to her...as she does not talk to any of us..from India.Or u can try mam please...ibeg u. Now i m really tired of all this.She gives miss calls after 5-5 min.at 4 in morning she starts.He persuades him to talk...Do something mam . Reply me as soon as u can.
Thank you.
Mam,have i asked for something impossible.Please ask babaji to come alive in my husband's heart,and ask him not to contact her any more.not to send her anything.He is still sending her air tickets and all.Please call her or come alive in her heart to say leave my husband .Donot say him her husband.She say i m always here and never give up.Please do something Reply please.
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