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A question of love
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trustingod
Radha Soami Ji, I am 24 years old (plan to get initiation this yr at 25). I love a guy very deeply, and he loves me very deeply too, but he does not believe in radha soami faith, and does not understand it, and therefore, he wants me to buy/cook meat for him and his family. We planned to marry, but because of these issues, it was causing many problems, so we broke up few months ago, however, we still love each other so much, and want to be together.

Babaji says to do our duties to keep harmony within the family, but that is only for people who got into the path after marriage? In my case, I would be entering the marriage knowing about the problems, so Babaji wouldnt forgive me, and I would be sinning? what should I do? It is so hard.
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iloverichardclark
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If you guys really love one another go with it if he doesn't understand it sit down with him for an hour or a half and explain it love takes time and you need to be patient
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trustingod
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I tried to make him understand, but he doesnt get how important it is for me to avoid dealing with meat, and says that me not buying meat etc would make things awkward in the future.

I read in one of the RS books "to handle meat items does involve a load of karmas... followers of the path should try to avoid this. Everyone is answerable for his or her actions and the price has to be paid for all that we do or think. Try to avoid dealing in meat products if possible".

So it is complicated, but I really want to make our relationship work, but I just dont know how, or the right thing to do. Especially as I know that it is wrong to handle meat, but I still love him so much.

Do I marry him and compromise my beliefs, or do I forget him due to our differences? The thing is that I cannot ever forget him, and will never stop loving him.
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iloverichardclark
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Go againest your differences handle meat youll change your beliefs but its for a better reasonfor peopl in your family in the future and it will make you and him happy try the meat its really good trust me
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iloverichardclark
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Comprement ur beliefs
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trustingod
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Are you a radha soami follower?
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reasonemotion1
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It will not work -

in fact if you go ahead it will be a disaster - after your initial period of romantic love with each other reality will set in - and it will leave you with tears in the meat as you carve and cook it. Find someone who holds and respects YOUR beliefs.


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anotherseeker
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Do u think the person who is unable to understand u in such a small matter. can understand u in big matters of life. Anything can be left for god, but got can not be left for anything. Now it is Ur decision come out of moh (attraction) and recognize your real love for god. Try to think if he really loves u he can at least adjust little bit for u.
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Vckypaldocu
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This is simply a facination/attractioni, Nothing else.
A person who is not udnerstanding this small difference and can not leave MEAT, how do we expect that he would take care of you for the rest of the future? He simply loves MEAT not you.

Behan agar mari baat buri na lage toh mae ek baat saaf keh doo kee please don't get in so much of attraction and go with a guy who understands this path (Need not to be a Radha Swomi, but atleast understands).

Apni jindgi nark mut banaoo.
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sharmajolly
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Hi dear...look u can ask him that he can do wat he wants..he can have non veg..he can have drinks..but ask him just to keep you out of this...tell him u can do everything for him but for ur luv's sake he can give u atleast a little freedom to not do wat ur innerself doesn't allow... he should respect ur feelings also...if ur boy friend doesn't even understand such things..he's not worth ur luv..talk to him once more..may b he changes his mind..
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